Helping Jewish men navigate the complexities of dating, marriage, and personal growth.
Eliyahu Kanush is a dedicated relationship coach specializing in helping men navigate the complexities of dating, marriage, and personal growth. With a focus on empowering men to build strong, healthy relationships, Eliyahu offers guidance in three key areas: dating, marriage preparation, and supporting married men in strengthening their relationships.
Dating coach, Eliyahu helps single men develop confidence, emotional intelligence, and the necessary skills to connect meaningfully with potential partners. His tailored approach ensures that clients are not only focused on finding a partner but on building a foundation for a lasting, fulfilling relationship.
Marriage preparation coach, Eliyahu works with engaged men to prepare them for the next big step in life. He provides tools to foster communication, emotional resilience, and the mindset needed for a successful marriage, helping men enter this sacred commitment with clarity and confidence.
Married men’s relationship coach
For hose already married, Eliyahu serves as a married men’s relationship coach, supporting husbands in navigating the challenges of married life. From improving communication to managing conflicts and deepening emotional connection, Eliyahu helps men cultivate strong, loving marriages that thrive over time.
ABOUT ELIYAHU
Drawing on his own experiences as a married man and father, Eliyahu offers practical advice, spiritual insights, and compassionate support, guiding men to become better partners and live with purpose in their relationships.
Eliyahu has been married to the same woman since 2006.
Eliyahu holds a BA in psychology from UCSC.
To set up a FREE intake session WhatsApp message Eliyahu at 0547775306 or +972547775306 or Call TEXT the USA 4158016685
What his wife says about his work:
"Eliyahu has life experience that absolutely tackles the demons that kept him from having a healthy relationship
He's learned how to to come out of that with flying colors. He has become an absolute gem to live with and to be partners with in this lifetime.
I promise you I couldn't say that a few years ago. We have been married for twenty years. " Rivkah Adinah Kanush
J.E.M.S MEDITATIONS
Whether focused on financial anxiety, relationship dynamics, career challenges, or personal growth, J.E.M.S. Meditations provide me with a supportive and spiritually nourishing path to becoming more empowered and connected.
**J.E.M.S. Meditations** are a unique series of guided reflections and mindfulness exercises designed specifically for **Jewish Empowered Men** (J.E.M.S.) like myself, who are seeking to grow in emotional strength, spiritual awareness, and personal empowerment. These meditations provide me with a space to reflect on my challenges, reconnect with my inner wisdom, and draw strength from Jewish teachings and traditions.
Through J.E.M.S. Meditations, I aim to:
1. **Cultivate Self-Compassion:** By addressing the pressures I often face—whether in relationships, finances, career, or spiritual growth—these meditations focus on helping me let go of self-criticism and foster self-kindness.
2. **Embrace Authentic Masculinity:** Grounded in Jewish values, the meditations offer an opportunity for me to explore what it means to be a Jewish man in today's world—balancing strength, vulnerability, leadership, and humility.
3. **Connect to Jewish Wisdom:** Each meditation draws upon timeless teachings from the Torah, Pirkei Avot, and other Jewish sources, offering spiritual insights to guide me through life's ups and downs.
4. **Release Guilt and Shame:** I may carry guilt or shame about not meeting expectations—whether financial, familial, or religious. J.E.M.S. Meditations gently guide me toward acceptance, encouraging a mindset of growth rather than perfection.
5. **Find Inner Peace and Resilience:** Through mindfulness, breathing techniques, and reflection, these meditations offer me tools to manage stress, anxiety, and the everyday pressures of life while nurturing a sense of inner calm and faith in Hashem’s plan.
JEMS FINANCIAL MEDITATIONS
This meditations if for JEMs to practice when considering our finances. If we notice stress or anxiety come up.
### Gentleness Break: A Meditation for Reflecting on My Finances
I take a deep breath in, and as I exhale, I allow my body to settle into the space I'm in. I let my shoulders relax and feel my feet rooted to the ground beneath me. I close my eyes if that feels comfortable, and take a few more slow, deep breaths.
Now, I bring to mind the part of me that feels anxious, disappointed, or perhaps even ashamed about my finances. I acknowledge this feeling—without judgment. I simply observe it as a part of my internal world that has surfaced, but does not define my worth.
As I continue to breathe, I silently say to myself, “I am not alone.” Many Jewish men carry the burden of financial expectations, often shaped by critical voices—whether from parents, society, or even from within. These voices may have taught me that my worth is tied to my wealth or financial success. But I take a moment to reflect on a deeper truth: I am worthy beyond numbers, beyond material success.
I consider the teachings of my tradition that remind me of the true riches I have—Torah, mitzvot, family, and community. In Pirkei Avot, it says, "Who is rich? He who is happy with his portion." I let this wisdom guide me now. What can I appreciate in my life that is of value beyond money? What relationships, skills, or experiences make me truly rich?
I imagine speaking to the voice of criticism inside, the one that tells me that I should be further along, that I should have more. I gently tell it: “I hear you, but I choose to be kind to myself right now. I am doing the best I can with the circumstances Hashem has given me.”
I let go of the pressure to compare my financial journey to others. Each person’s path is unique, guided by divine providence. Hashem knows the challenges I face, and He also sees my efforts. I release the need to live up to anyone else’s timeline or expectations. Instead, I ask myself: What is the next small, kind step I can take to improve my situation? I trust that small steps, taken with gentleness, lead to lasting change.
With my hand on my heart, I silently repeat the following blessing:
"May I be kind to myself. May I find peace with where I am today. May I trust that my worth is not defined by my wealth, but by the person I am becoming."
I take another deep breath, and when I’m ready, I slowly open my eyes. As I move forward, I carry this gentleness with me. I am more than enough just as I am. I trust that my journey is unfolding exactly as it’s meant to, and that I am not alone in this process.
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